Loneliness + The Highly Gifted Brain

Loneliness for those with highly gifted brains is a serious and sharp issue.

All humans crave to be properly and fully met.

To be perceived and received with accuracy and authenticity.

The gifted are no different.

It's just exponentially harder for them to find people who 1) actually can perceive them fully and 2) have the emotional skills and capacity to actually receive what they perceive.

(Emotional intelligence is a rich and deep topic, again, for all humans, and is vanishingly rare in the current climate.)

What I see as a very specific issue for gifted people is that when they are actively creating (in the 3D, not 'just' energetically) with intention and from their own true pure essence, they don't experience the existential angst of loneliness as keenly.

They may be aware of aloneness, but they are able to meet their own needs of being perceived and received more fully.

I'm no proponent of the hyper individualism and hyper independence of the west. We are designed to commune and be together.

And the hard facts of the current time is that access to others with the ability to see us and embrace us for what we truly are is still rare.

Most people are either focused on inner gaze figuring out what they truly are (a worthy endeavor and one that leaves little room to give attention to others) or outer gaze where they are only seeking to see how what they are and what they share affects others.

The dance of differentiated communion is radically uncommon for humans among humans still.

For the highly gifted needing solace in loneliness, I will almost always encourage us to return to the focus of flowing the current through us that wants to create in the unique manner only we each can create and to attend to the ways in which we can actively bring that in to the 3D.

Also, connections with animals and other beings are deeply nourishing! Here is Minnie Mu, the Pearl of Wonder, sharing her magic with me!

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